Giftedness in a lifespan. It doesn't stop after childhood, does it?!
Doesn't giftedness continue beyond childhood?!
Highly gifted children grow up to become highly gifted adults, who still frequently grapple with the feeling of being different. Many adults restrain themselves due to the perception of being labeled as 'nerds' or standing out from the crowd. However, there remains a scarcity of information tailored to this demographic.
"Ever since my child's suspected giftedness was confirmed, I see myself mirrored in them. Could I possibly be gifted too?
Why can't everything in my life just be 'normal'? People always complain that I'm too serious and can't just act 'normal' like everyone else.
But being gifted, that can't be me, right? I went to a technical secondary school and barely scraped through college. I couldn't possibly be gifted, could I? Yet, I feel so out of place..."
These are common sentiments we often encounter during coaching sessions with adults or initial discussions with gifted children's parents. Uncovering your giftedness later in life often leads to a plethora of self-reflective questions. It offers a unique perspective on your past, your present identity, and the potential paths you could have taken. This introspection can be quite confronting. We aim to explore these questions in our coaching sessions with you and provide insights.
Many adults find facing themselves in this manner quite daunting and tend to initially shy away from the challenge. However, there comes a point where avoidance is no longer an option, and the desire for recognition and validation becomes overwhelming. Often, adults who have recently come to realize their giftedness undergo a process akin to mourning: from initial recognition accompanied by doubt and denial, to awe and acceptance, to appreciation and a sense of integration with their giftedness, and ultimately to embracing it as an integral part of themselves and their identity.
Are you (highly) gifted yourself? Our experts can help you!
Are you on the verge of burnout due to your intense drive? Are you feeling stuck in your job because you always seem to be two steps ahead of your – in your eyes, sluggish – colleagues and need career guidance? Are you a student who consistently receives failing grades despite breezing through high school? Or is it really about (high) giftedness, and you simply want to understand what's happening?
Individual Coaching
Every journey begins with an intake session where we explore your needs. Together with you, the coach then determines how to shape your personalized program.
Group Coaching
Our coaches also organize group sessions for gifted adults, each tailored to specific needs and target groups. Check our agenda regularly for events catered to gifted adults.
Career Guidance
Ever wondered if the job you're in is right for you? Unsure if it aligns with your abilities and aspirations? Hoogbloeier® offers career guidance in collaboration with Talentenbox that delves deeper than just resume building. Together, we explore your values, strengths, and aspirations to find a career path that resonates with you.
Our career guidance is recognized by VDAB and can be funded using career vouchers.
Browse our list of partner coaches specializing in adults, and feel free to reach out for an intake session. For information on lifelong giftedness, check our agenda for upcoming themed evenings.
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